In 16 years, I learned that what matters is to be happy. Don't worry what people think, because anything you do, you'll always receive criticism from society.
I make my choices. Sometimes I conclude they weren't the best ones, but there are times that I think that it couldn't be more perfect than they waere. It's just a question about absorb experiences and learn for don't err next time.
You'll never make perfect choices all the time, but that's why life has high and down spots.